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Wednesday, 4 June 2014

Dating and Power Dressing

When you go on a date it is essential that you know how to dress or wear proper clothes. You must select your dress according to your body type. According to personality experts, youth, according to their body types, can be classified into three types.

First, those who have broader shoulders than hips; 
Second, those who have broader hips than shoulders;
Third, those who have the same sized shoulders and hips.



  • keep your own style and look.
  • Copy some ideal style. Don't imitate just any style.
  • Wear designer dresses. They would make you look impressive. You could copy some celebrities' outfits if you want. 
  • If you are imitating anybody, make sure that the dress suits your body and looks perfect on you.
  • The design, cut and style of your dress should be such that it adds to your personality.
  • Take care of the accessories along with your dress: tie, socks, shoes, belt, spectacles, etc., or long dress, sandals, bag, etc. should be according to dress.
  • Your dress should neither be too tight, nor too loose. It should be comfortable to wear.
  • It would look attractive if you choose your dress according to your stature.
  • Avoid out-of-date and old-fashioned dresses.
  • Try putting on a new dress to see if it is not uncomfortable.
  • Pay attention to your colour choice. See the matching and contrast colours of your dress. Just as the fashion changes, sometimes light and sometimes dark colours happen to be in fashion.
  • If you have less broad shoulders, wear boat-necked shirts only. The lapel of the coat should be thick and it should be outward. The pockets of your pants should be crossed. It is better if you wear pants without pleats.
  • Those who have the same sized shoulders and hips, they can wear any type of dress.
  • If you have broad shoulders, wear a shirt with short sleeves. The lapels of the coat should be thin and low.
  • If you have short legs, wear your pants a little above your hips so that the legs appear longer. The coat should be of normal size with three buttons.
  • Skinny youth should wear double-breasted coats and thick or checked shirts.
  • If you have a tall figure, you should wear light coloured pants and a dirk coloured shirt.
  • Do wear your belt of you have a tall figure. It will help you look less tall as the body will be divided into two parts.
  • Those who have fat and heavy bodies, they look better in sack-suits.
  • Those who have normal body, they look good only in American style suits.
  • Ties come in different colours and designs. You can match your tie with your shirt and wear it.
  • A girl should wear the right dress and sandals to match with the dress and the handbag.
  • A short girl should wear long dresses with a break in the middle. Tall girls can wear two-pieces outfits.
  • Learn to follow the fashion that suits you as a girl.

Dating and Style

You must cast a good impression if you want to be a success. For this, you must pay special attention to your style. Style means your body language, dressing, confidence, etc. should be such that you make a good impression on the boy or girl.

As the saying goes, 'first impression is the last impression,' remember to 

  • be ready with some special expressions. 
  • Have your hair set several days earlier. If you want to change your hairstyle, do it weeks prior to the dating.
  • have a bath before going on a date. Use a good quality deodorant to get rid of bad smell. Use a strong perfume before leaving. 
  • Use a special kind of dating perfume.
  • Make sure that you don't waste time on shopping on the day of dating.
  • If you want to buy anything new, do it at least a few days in advance.
  • Keep your mood fresh on that day. Forget all your worries. Go ahead on your date with happiness and enthusiasm. 
  • Reach on time. It is a sign of negligence to be late on a first date.
  • Don't ask about your style when you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend. He or she will comment on your style himself or herself.
  • Compliment your friend's dress sense, style and make up.
  • If your mouth has bad breath, do not panic. Take chewing gum, mouth freshener or mouth spray, etc.

All is not fair in love

It is said that 'all is fair in love and war'. In other words, one should win by hook or by crook. But this does not seem valid for love, because you cannot achieve someone's love by force. Many lovers adopt unfair means to obtain love. Do not use wrong methods to win your love. Adopt only fair methods to gain true love.


  • Many boys try to impress girls in the film style. First, they tease or make fun of their friend or hire some bullies. Then they try to become valiant by fighting with them on the spot.
  • Many boys pretend to be rich. They borrow money from their friends in order to impress their girlfriends. They even do not hesitate to steal money from home.
  • Several boys trap naive girls by their smooth talk and persuade them to run away from home. They have fun with the money stolen from home and with the jewellery of their girlfriend. After the money is finished, they get rid of them.
  • Many boys have one-sided love with the girls. They merely pretend their love just as Shahrukh Khan did in the movie called 'Darr'.
  • Many boys lay a snare for the girlfriends of other friends to attract them. For this they even create misunderstandings between them.
  • There are some boys who get so mad in one-sided love that they kidnap the girl and force her to marry. If she refuses, they even kill her.

If you want to win your girlfriend by adopting any of the above methods, then you are wrong. All these techniques are not fair in true love.

Actually love cannot be forced. Make sacrifices in love. Don't be arrogant at all, because love wants sacrifice, not force.

The same is true for girls who should not try to win their boyfriend's love through force or coercion.

If you want to obtain somebody's love, then propose to his or her gently and hope to win his or her love. To be in search of love is beautiful, but to find love without searching is even more beautiful.