Style Of Proposing

To understand a heart it requires a lifetime.
Girls do not open up in just four days of courtship.

• speak your first sentences confidently. Do not stammer or hesitate. Neither girls nor boys like those who stammer and hesitate. 
• Propose to the boy or girl you like face to face. Do not propose to him or her behind the back or by calling out from behind or by taking him or her by surprise. Girls and boys do not consider this to be nice.
• use words which represent the voice of your heart. Do not make use of pompous words in order to impress. This would seem artificial and stupid.
• If a suitable phrase is not coming to your mind, just say 'How are you?' to start the conversation. Although such phrases do not express your love, you can at least break the ice and get friendly witth the friend.
• If the boy or girl you are proposing to is younger or older than you, try to know him or her better, for example, find out what he or she does. How long he or she has been working? What are his or her hobbies? Who all are in the family? Analyse after having all the information and ask yourself whether the friend is suitable for you.
• Never compliment yourself. Do not pretend to be smart.
• Compliment him or her for her beauty but do not compare him or her with others, like, 'You look exactly like Angelina' or 'You look like Tom Cruise!' From such things he or she will infer that you are not crazy about him or her but about his or her body and that you are interested in sex.
• When you start a conversation with a boy or girl, always speak gently and politely. You will have an incomplete feeling about you if you speak fast or rush without giving enough details. He or she will be disappointed in you. 
• keep your cool while having a conversation. Do not get carried away and start speaking on hot topics in the first meeting. He or she will feel insecure with you. 
• So not speak about sex in the initial period. If you do so, you may be considered rude and brazen.
• There is a likelihood of your becoming successful if you propose in a correct manner. The style of proposing should be such that he or she becomes yours, for sure.

Take care of the following points

• Never propose by using wrong, dirty, rude and filthy words.
• Do not overact while expressing your love.
• Do not tease and make fun of him or her in order to express your love.
• Never express your love by showing off.
• Adopt polite ways to express your love.
• It does not seem proper if one whistles or pushes in order to express love.
• Do not eat about the bush to express your feelings. Be  straightforward in what you have to say.
• Do not take the help of your friends in order to express your love.

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