'Crush' Lovers

During teenage, if a boy or girl secretly looks out of the window and forgets to have the meals, sleep, wake up, studies, remains detached, and is always looking for somebody, then consider that he or she is a victim of 'crush'. All these are symptoms of having a 'crush' on somebody.

A victim of 'crush' does not come in front in order to please the person he or she loves. He or she writes letter but reads them to himself or herself and then tears it; or types e-mails, but instead of sending them, he or she delete them.

According to psychologists, a teenager may have a crush on anybody. He or she starts loving a boy or girl either much too older than him or her or much too younger to him or her. Sometimes he or she even begins to love his or her class/school teacher. He or she writes love letters but does not send them. 

A 'crush' lover can be called as a kind of one-sided lover. A one-sided lover tends to be crazy. He or she can do anything in order to achieve his or her love, but 'crush' lovers do not express their love at all.

Things to do for a crush lover

• Don't have the desire to fall in love with aged men or girls. Fall in love with a boy or girl of your age.
• Instead of loving someone in your mind, try to propose to him or her. Perhaps you'd be lucky to have his or her love.
• Give information about the boy or girl you admire to your friends. It may so happen that he or she will come to know about your love through them.
• Don't give up studying for the sake of love. First GIVE PRIORITY TO EDUCATION AND CAREER AND THEN LOVE.
• If the 'crush' increases in intensity, you may become a victim of madness. Start taking care of yourself before it.