How to Select a Friend

How to Select a Friend 

Girls are very choosy about selecting their boyfriends and same is the case with boys. They take a lot of precautions about it.They select only those who pass the test of love. So boys and girls should be careful in selecting their friends. It is not easy to select a friend. You need to do full planning. It should not be that whosoever you meet, you make him or her your friend.If you select your friend in a rush, you might get into big trouble later on.

Before selecting

• Before selecting a friend, study about him or her completely. 
• Try to understand the body language of the girl or the boy before making your friend.
• Don't just consider the over beauty and go crazy and propose to him or her. Judge her or his nature and attitude.
• Girls take a long time to open up. Only after that, one gets to know about her character and personality. Boys are easier to become friends with.
• Propose to him or her only after you are fully satisfied.
• If a girl has proposed you, then take the decision one after investigating thoroughly. Same is the case with the girl.
• Though the saying goes, "There is no rich or poor in love", FORGET ABOUT IT, because it is far better to make friend of your own status, than to be unsuccessful later.
• Collect the details of his or her family before making him or her your friend. By doing so you will know a lot about the person's nature and character.
• Find out about his or her hobbies and state of mind. If hobbies do not correspond, then thoughts will not match either.
• Avoid boys or girls who go on making several friends.
• Do not rush in when choosing your girlfriend or boyfriend. Go step by step. Judge well and then accept the friend.
• Check if the boy or girl is not pretending to be in love with you.You might suffer a heartbreak if you come to know the truth. You may have to shed tears of blood.
• Don't make him or her your friend if somebody proposes on the streets, because even call-girls propose to good-looking gentlemen. They rob you of your prestige and transmit many deadly diseases. Same holds true for girls who should not have many male friends.
• Don't make one your friend, who just complies to please you, because the day he or she disagrees or she disagrees about anything, you will feel bad about it.
• It is better to avoid a cunning or an item girl or boy. The person suitable to be your friend would be one who loves you; not the one who is after you money.

• The boy or girl who starts talking about sex after a few meetings, sends sexy MMS or SMS, likes to watch sexy movies, or likes to go to porn-sites, is not of a good character. Stay away from such a person.

Make a list

• Make a complete list of your bad habits and weaknesses.
• Make a list of those qualities that you would like to see in your friend. If you cannot change yourself, then change the list that contains the qualities of your friend.

• Try to judge yourself by placing both the lists and ask yourself whether you are really eligible for the friend you are looking for. If you are not, then try to change yourself.
• Select a friend of your status. If you are from a rich family, then make a friend of the same status, because a boy or girl coming from a status lower than you will not be able to maintain all that well. Later on you will have to repent.
• The first quality that a boy wants in a girl is her beauty and same is true in the boy. Even a beautiful girl would like a lot of good qualities in her boyfriend. Same is true of a boy. That is why inculcate good qualities in yourself and not the bad ones.
• Give more importance to good qualities rather than beauty. According to psychologists, good qualities will eventually prove to be ideal.

A confident step

• Do not rush in selecting your friend. Anything done in a hurry may prove to be wrong as well.
• Take the decision only after repeatedly weighing the positive and negatives of your thoughts.
• Do not select your friend by compromising on anything.

Four points

• Sometimes there may be objections to your love.
• There is no such thing as first, second or third love. Love is only love.
• In love, the burden of favours may bend life sometimes.
• Before falling in love, make sure that the fragrance of the deodorant or body odour of the boy or girl does not turn you off.