Unfaithful Lover

Gone are the days when a girlfriend or boyfriend used to be devoted to her boyfriend or girlfriend. For some women and men even the concept of love has changed. It has become a fashion to make boyfriends and girlfriends. They change their friends as soon they see a care instead of bike, and a huge bank balance instead of car. It is better to die than to slog for such a girlfriend or boyfriend. You have to be practical about such things. 

• When you are certain that your girlfriend or boyfriend is beginning to have an affair with somebody else, talk to her or him about it frankly.
• Do not go out of control when see your girlfriend or boyfriend with somebody else. First of all, try to find out who he or she is and what is their relationship.
• If your girlfriend or boyfriend says he is her or his cousin, then don't say anything, If she or he meets the cousin very often, then try to find out the truth of the relationship. 
• If your girlfriend or boyfriend says she or he is just her friend, don't say anything to her or him in front of her or him. After he or she goes away, you tell him or her outright that you don't approve of meeting somebody else like this. You will be able to see her or his reaction to this.
• Even after your objections, she or he keeps meeting that boy or girl, take it for granted that you are going to be sidelined.
• When you feel that your love relationship is going to break then try to find a solution to the problem with your girlfriend or boyfriend. For that you can even include her or his new friend.
• Make your friend realise that you are more worthy than the other guy or girl.
• See if your girlfriend or boyfriend has the habit of flirting with others. If she or he behaves flirtatiously, then it will be difficult for you to change her or him. It would be better you changed your path.
• It is not right to scold, scream or howl at your girlfriend or boyfriend.
• Don't scold her or his new friend in front of your girlfriend of your girlfriend or boyfriend. It would sound uncouth and people will laugh at you.
• Tell her or his new boyfriend or girlfriend about your relationship in detail, so that he or she would know that the girl or boy who he or she is love with was somebody's before.
• It is not appropriate to spend your life brooding over your unfaithful girlfriend or boyfriend. You should go ahead by facing the realities with courage.
• Don't think of committing suicide for your unfaithful girlfriend or boyfriend and forget your parents and siblings. In doing so, your family will be in pain and they will not bear the disgrace.