Are you mean, stingy? (कंजूस)

Girls are expert in making the pockets of boys empty, but there are some boys who are very clever in emptying the purses of girls or vice versa. Whether your girlfriend or boyfriend comes from a wealthy family or she or he is working, it is not a good idea to make her or him bear all expenses when you go out. Girls and boys get rid of such boys and girls. Judge whether you have the following habits:

• You don't spend on food and drinks when you take your girlfriend or boyfriend to a restaurant, hotel or other places.
• When you go to a hotel or a restaurant, you happen to be the first one to place an order. And you lag behind at the time of paying the bills. 
• When you take your girlfriend or boyfriend out, you put the expenses on your girlfriend or boyfriend's or boyfriend's shoulders.
• You suggest going to the movies but you ask for advance money for the ticket from your girlfriend.
• When you take her or him on your bike or car, at the time of refuelling you often say, 'I am sorry, I forgot my credit card.'
• When your girlfriend or boyfriend is with you, you use your mobile less and use your girlfriend's or boyfriend's mobile more to make calls.
• You become very happy when your girlfriend or boyfriend gives you a gift. You sing praises for him or her, and you don't even think of presenting a gift yourself because you have to spend money on it.
• You pretend to look like a wretched or miserable creature so that he or she doesn't demand anything for which you have to pay.

Points to remember

• A girl or boy likes you, but she or he does not say anything even though you behave like a miser. This does not mean that you take advantage of her or his simplicity.
• No matter how rich your girlfriend or boyfriend is, her or his parents, brothers and sisters must be asking her or him to give an account of the expenses, She or he might even have to tell lies due to the expenses incurred on you.
• If your girlfriend or boyfriend is an employee, then many people may be dependent on her or him. If she or he spends money on you, she or he might have to cut down on other expenses.
• Mind you, If you think your girlfriend or boyfriend is your ATM card, she or he can also think you are her or his credit card and cash in on you.
• You are a man, behave like a man. Don't have fun with your girlfriend's money. Have you got it or not? At times this same condition applies to girls too.