It is by nature that some people remain quiet. Those who keep quiet believe in the language of the eyes. They do not speak out what is in their heart but they say it all. If you want to make a girlfriend or boyfriend who happens to be quiet, then you should know a few things.
When you propose to such a girl or boy, you will not understand her or him even if you get a reply.
You fall a victim to depression if you fail to understand the feelings of such a girlfriend or boyfriend.
There are some girls or boys who want boys or girls to hover around them, so they keep quiet. You must judge such types of girls or boys well.
Know one thing more-you cannot share your thoughts, feelings, etc. fully with such types of girls or boys.
To bring profoundness in your love, you must use words.
Without words, you cannot make decisions about your future.
For your information
Try to find out why your girlfriend or boyfriend is so quiet.
It could be her or his nature since childhood or she or he may be trying to entice you on the pretext of it.
It could be that somebody had attempted to rape her or in fact raped her. If she is victim of such a tradegy, try to console her.
According to psychologists, it is a mental disease if a person keeps quiet. You can take your girlfriend or boyfriend to some psychiatrist.
Try to know about his or her past. It could be that he or she has been thinking of some past incident because of which she or he is so quiet.
Inquire about his or her family. It could be that because of his or her family circumstances that he or she is quiet. For instance, his or her mother has divorced her or his father; his or her father is a drunkard; his or her financial condition is bad; there has been a bereavement in the family, etc.
Her ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend may have deceived him or her, because of whom, he or she is frustrated and sad.
It could be that he or she wants his girlfriend or her girlfriend to hover around him or her and he or she is having fun, and he or she may be satisfied with what he or she is.
Take steps carefully
First of all try to find out what she or he wants of you.
If you don't get a satisfactory answer about this, it is better to say goodbye to such a person.
It is better to change the path instead of being a victim of depression caused by the question - does he or she love me or not?
How to share your feelings with such a Girlfriend or Boyfriend
When you meet your quiet girlfriend or boyfriend, always talk frankly about your thoughts and feelings.
You can share your thoughts through SMS, MMS, phone or social networking.
Try to change the environment by taking him or her to another city. If you keep trying, her or his behaviour will certainly change.
Always speak in a romantic mood. Watch romantic movies with her or him and discuss romantic topics with her or him.
Caution
Do not insist on an answer to every question.
Do not argue about any topic with your girlfriend or boyfriend.
Do not remain quiet with your quiet girlfriend or boyfriend, else there would be no one to break the ice.
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