Manners of Your Girlfriend or Boyfriend that make you go Crazy

Normally every youth and girl finds everything of his girlfriend or boyfriend to be nice. But certain
gestures or manners make you go crazy about him or her.

His or her mischief, her restlessness, her flirtatious behaviour and mannerism. 

•  His or her smile seems as if raindrops are falling in the rainy season. 
•  His or her voice makes your heart vibrate. 
•  His or her twisting and stretching of limbs makes you crazy. 
•  The way he or she speaks freely makes your heart beat faster. 
•  Your heart gets agitated when he or she winks at you or gazes at you. 
•  His or her fashionable dress makes you say coo… coo... 
•  His or her way of doing make-up or dressing is really attractive. 
•  His or her looking at you in the crowd with half-closed eyes increases your heartbeat. 
•  The way he or she is embarrassed upon proposing to him or her and the way he or she cuddles you and you feel good by merely thinking about it. 
•  Singing romantic songs while going on a long drive and you wishing that the time would never pass by. 
•  His or her becoming happy at every gesture of yours makes you intoxicated. 
•  You wish that the time would stop when he or she places his or her head on your shoulders and speaks about love. 
•  You feel like humming instead of getting angry when he or she scolds shouts and get offended. 
•  The closer he or she gets the farther it seems. The farther he or she goes away the more you miss him or her. 
•  When he or she comes, you remember nothing and when he or she goes away, only he or she is in your mind. 
•  His or her gait makes your heart go crazy. 

Restaurant Manners

When you go to a restaurant, you should know the etiquettes. If you don’t behave properly at a
restaurant, the fun of eating will be spoiled and you will be a subject of ridicule.

Don’t phone and ask your girlfriend or boyfriend to reach a particular restaurant and that you will catch up there. 

•  If you want to go to a restaurant, go together with your girlfriend or boyfriend. 
•  It is better to book a table before going to a restaurant. 
•  When you reach a restaurant, don’t rush for the empty table. Wait for the waiter to show you the table. 
•  If you don’t like the table, ask the waiter politely to give another table. 
•  Don’t place an order for the food of your choice before reaching a restaurant. Ask what your girlfriend’s or boyfriend’s choice is. 
•  Don’t just order food of your choice only. Insist that your girlfriend or boyfriend orders the food of her or his choice. 
•  Confirm with your girlfriend or boyfriend before ordering the food. 
•  Don’t speak loudly and argue with your friend at a restaurant.
• To call a waiter, say, ‘Excuse me’ politely or lift your hand gently.
•  If anything falls, call the waiter instead of picking it up yourself.
•  If anything goes wrong, don’t scold your girlfriend or boyfriend at the top of your voice. 
•  Don’t say anything to the waiter if the food is not good. 
•  Don’t sit for hours at a restaurant. 
•  Tip the waiter after clearing your bill. 

I Love U 2

The meaning of ‘I-Love-U-2’ sounds obvious. Some boys keep two girlfriends instead of one. They get pleasure in doing so. According to a psychologist, Dr. Rocklin Way, the definition of love is changing fast. Earlier a lover was willing even to die for the sake of his beloved. Now they keep two girlfriends.
Even girls are not behind in this matter. Even after knowing that the boy has an affair with another girl, she proposes to him. 

Why do they do like this?

• What good have you done if you love only one girl or one boy? Have fun with several girls. 
•  Boys think it is a new world. When girls cannot stick to one boy, then why can’t boys have fun 
• with at least two girls? 
•  Boys think, “If it is valid in films like ‘Gharwali Baharwali,’ why can’t we fall in love with two 
• girlfriends?” 
•  Boys and girls think if Draupadi had five husbands, why can’t they have two girlfriends or 
• boyfriends? 
•  Girls think that there is not one but two boys who are dying for me. To be in love with only one 
• is outdated. It belongs to Adam’s era. 
•  It is difficult to pit your legs in two boats. It needs great courage to do so. Everyone cannot do 
• this. But I will show it. 

Cut two out 

• There is no space between you and I. So don’t fall in love with two instead of one. 
•  I-Love-U-2 situation can be very dangerous sometimes. It can even take someone’s life. 

In the clutches of your friend

Has your world become limited to your girlfriend or boyfriend? If you have forgotten your family and friend circle because of your friend, then you have fallen into the hands of your boyfriend or girlfriend. So find out your own position by answering these questions. 

• Do you spent most of your time with your girlfriend or boyfriend? 
•  Have you not been able to give even a little time to your family and friends? 
•  Do you cancel programmes regarding time with your family and friends at your girlfriend’s or 
• boyfriend’s instructions? 
•  Do you think that it is your duty to fulfill every task of your girlfriend or boyfriend at any cost? 
•  In order to complete your girlfriend’s or boyfriend’s task, do you put off other tasks you are 
• supposed to do? 
•  Does your friendship interfere in every affair of yours? 
•  Do you go running to your girlfriend or boyfriend whenever she or he calls you? 
•  Do you believe in whatever your girlfriend or boyfriend says? 
• Would you choose your girlfriend or boyfriend if asked to make a choice between your friend 
• and your family and other friends? 
•  Do you always sing praises about your girlfriend’s beauty or your boyfriend’s handsome looks? 
•  Do you blindly agree with your girlfriend or boyfriend without thinking over it? 
•  Would you agree if she or he says night to a day and day to a night? Or will you be willing to 
• bring the moon to her or him? 
•  Do you do certain things on your girlfriend’s or boyfriend’s advice? 

If the answer to most of the questions above is YES, then consider you are fully in the clutches of your girlfriend or boyfriend. Try to come out of it; otherwise, you know very well what the world will say to you. A watchdog or rat. 

CU Some Time

If the warmth of love exists in two lovers, then they look for excuses to see each other every day.
If there is a little lack in the warmth, the CU- Some-Other-Time situation comes into effect. In
other words, business comes in between love. When you express your desire to meet, he or she
makes an excuse by saying he or she does not have the time. It is but natural that you begin to
think about so many other things. If there is CU-Some-Other-Time situation, then try to find out
the reason behind it.

• Check to see if it is not infatuation which you thought to be love. 
•  See if the warmth of love has diminished between you. 
•  See if somebody else has come into the life of your girlfriend or boyfriend. 
•  Find out if you are showing too much love to him or her and which is putting him or her off. 
•  Perhaps you make your girlfriend or boyfriend stay late at night and make your friend 
• receive scolding and nagging from the family. 
•  You may have some habit of yours which your friend does not like. 
•  It could be that you tease him or her when you meet and insist on having sex with you. 
•  It could be his or her job or profession that is not allowing him or her to find time for you. 
•  It could be that he or she spends most of the time on the internet with you and he or she 
• does not have any time left to see you in person. 
•  During the initial days of a love-relationship there is a kind of excitement and eagerness to 
• meet each other often. As time passes by, you know more and more about each other and 
• as a result, you go back to catch up with your friends and relatives, because you had 
• forgotten them for some time. 
•  Despite all these things, if there is CU-Some-Other-Time situation, do not take it for granted 
• and let go, as it is a dangerous signal. Try to find out the cause immediately. 

Are you shorter than your girlfriend?

Don’t be disappointed if you are shorter (Tingu) than your girlfriend. You can change your style of
dressing and improve your height. 

•  Whenever you meet your girlfriend, don’t wear the same coloured dress as her. 
•  When walking with your girlfriend or when you talk to her, keep your body straight.
•  If you want to look thin and tall, wear oval, square or open T-shirts. 
•  Wear the dresses with thin and long lines. You will look taller in them. 
•  Wear high-heeled shoes or sandals when you go to see your girlfriend. 
•  Do not wear dresses having big patterns. You will look shorter in printed material. 
•  Do not gain weight. You will look shorter if you gain weight. 
•  Don’t wear over-tight or over-loose dresses. 
•  If the girl is too short, then she should wear high heels always. 
•  Wear dresses with long lines or stripes on them. 
•  Always stand erect and sit upright when you are with your tall boyfriend.
•  Wear plain pastel colours to look tall.
•  Avoid putting on weight. 

Flower Messages

If you want to express love in a different manner, you can send a gift of flowers. Flowers speak the language of the heart. 

•  A red rose says, “I love you.” 
•  A white rose says, “Our love is sacred.” 
•  If red and white rose are given together, that means “unity” 
•  A red rose in full bloom says, “You are beautiful.” 
•  A red rose with two buds gives assurance of security. 
•  A closed bud of a white rose explains, “You are too little to fall in love.” 
•  Yellow rose is somewhat suspicious and says, “I love you, but what is in your heart, I don’t  know.”
•  If there are leaves on the stalk, except thorns, then it means “There is nothing there. Neither there is fear nor there do any hope. In your beauty, I have somewhat lost all my sense.” 

An orange rose says, “My love for you is infinite.”

•  The meaning of a bunch of roses with four leaves together – “Best of Luck.”
•  A bud on a large branch arrogantly says, “I will love you. I am not afraid of anyone.” 
•  A red rose and a single stalk means – “I am still in love with you.” 
•  Jasmine rose- “I love you. Do you love me?” – One sided love. 
•  A red rose in full-bloom bouquet- “gratefulness, support and respect.” 
•  A bud of rose with black colour – “Yes, I have loved you too.” 
•  Blended rose – “I will always remember you.” 
•  Two roses bound with a ribbon- “Already engaged.” 
•  A fully bloomed rose in between two buds- “Secrecy” 
•  A crown of roses- “You got a prize. We are immensely pleased. Congratulations from my side.” 
•  Wilted white rose- “Either you couldn’t impress me or I don’t love you.” 
•  Deep burgundy rose- “You are unaware of your beauty.” 
•  Brunette rose- “I will like you forever.” 
•  Gardekisa- “You are lovely. Our love is secret.” 
•  Aphelia- “Take care of yourself for the sake of me.” 
•  A bunch of wilted flowers- “Your love is not acceptable to me.” 
•  Orchids- “Awarded” 
•  Water lily- “Sanctity of heart.” 
•  Henna- “Love and marriage relationship.” 
•  Jasmine – “Milan sarita” 
•  Jonquil – “Love me.” 
•  Lilac- “First feeling of love.” 
•  Acorn- “Life and immortality.” 
•  Bitter sweet- “Truth.” 
•  Bluebay- “Purity, Tolerance.” 
•  Cactus- “Tolerance.” 
•  Cherry- “Good values and politeness.” 
•  Cornflower- “Happiness.” 
•  Narcissus- “You are the only one in the world.” 
•  Dahlia- “Gaudiness.” 

What gifts to present to your friend

If you want to enter in a love relationship, then give your friend a lovely gift. The foundation of a relationship becomes strong if you present a sensible and meaningful gift to your friend. While presenting the gift, however, it is important to keep in mind the choice of your friend, occasion and time.

 Flower- It is a symbol of beauty, attraction and tenderness. It will bring lovers close to each other. One can present a bouquet or a flower. You can present by decorating the flowers in a pot.

 Music- You can present your friend a CD, DVD or a collection of romantic songs in a portable device. Romantic songs will move his or her heart.

Books- You can present a romantic novel, a collection of stories, poems and arts, a book of jokes and other famous books. He or she will read them and get immersed in your love.

 Greeting Cards- Write your own poems, ghazals, or lines of famous shayaris along with the lines given in the cards and send it across to him or her.

 Cosmetics- This is a weakness of every young girl. The moment she receives a collection of cosmetic items, she will start doing make-up and look in the mirror in front of you. A Boy will love to get an after-shave lotion from you.


Purse- A purse will enhance her personality. She will be excited to go shopping with you instantly. A boy can be presented a leather wallet.


Perfume- The perfume given by you will make her realize the depth of love and your presence. A boy would enjoy being gifted a subtle body spray.
 

Watch- The moving hands of the watch will make her realize that she has an absolute control over every moment of love. The same holds true for a boy.


Mobile- A mobile will end the distance between you and him or her. You can call up or send SMS messages whenever you like to him or her. You will feel closer, even if you may be far away.
 

IPod- Gift an IPod with your voice recorded in it. She or he can easily pass time whenever bored by listening to your voice.

 Dress- You can present her a dress or a shirt to him that you want. She or he will be delighted after wearing the dress or a shirt to him that you want. She or he will be delighted after wearing the dress.

 Diary- She or he can make a note of the times that you have spent with him or her and the times he or she spent without you. She or he will hold the diary against her or his chest as if it were you. Pen- A pen will not be useful just for writing love letters and diary, it will also add to the collection of pens.
 

Photo Album- She or he will feel the warmth of the love when she or he will look at the photos of the beautiful moments spent together.  

Chocolate- After getting the chocolate, she or he will really be sweet. Chocolate is an all-time favourite gift.

Soft toys- She or he will talk about love by holding the toy against her or his chest. Movie ticket- It will book two of you to experience the new feeling of love.
 

Jewellery- She or he will be shining by wearing these gifts. You will also say,’ Wow! If the jewellery is of Gold, Diamond, or Platinum, it’s much better.’ She will be in the seventh heaven after getting such gifts. A boy will enjoy getting cufflinks.


Spa treatment package- If your girlfriend is beauty conscious, then spa treatment package is the best gift to make to make her relax. She will like it very much. What else can be the gift as latest as this? For a boy too, it has become a welcome gift, provided they get the time.


Weekend tour- You feel like giving your friend a new gift though you may have given several gifts, one after another. In order to present something new, an outing would be the best gift for him or her.

A word of caution 

• Make sure you present the gift in a proper manner.
•  Don’t present transparent and bold outfits as gifts. 
• If you want to give him or her movie ticket, tell him or her one day in advance so that it does not spoil his or her schedule. 
• Gift should not be heavy on your pocket. 
• Don’t borrow money from your friend on order to buy a gift. 
• Don’t remind him or her of your gift repeatedly. 
• Your gift to your friend should be according to the season.
•  Don’t give a winter gift in summer and summer gift in winter. 
• Consider his or her hobbies, interests, likes and dislikes before presenting him or her gift.