Don't Put Your Career at Stake for Your Girlfriend or Boyfriend

After falling in love, many boys put their career at stake. Instead of doing a full-time job, they indulge in full-time love. They spend all their time going to beaches or to restaurants or some other places. The significance of love is in its own place. There's nothing wrong in falling in love, but it is not a good idea to spoil your career for the sake of your girlfriend or boyfriend.

• Remember you can make your life if you have a career. Falling in love is only a part of life.
• It is stupidity to go after your girlfriend or boyfriend, leaving behind your job. 
• Don't let your girlfriend or boyfriend spoil your career. This might spoil your life.
• Don't make it your ambition only to please your girlfriend or boyfriend.

"I will forget the world in your love," is a good thought to have, but don't forget your career. 

•  Don't waste your time over your girlfriend or boyfriend if you are taking part in any competition or examination.
• If you are well established in your career, your girlfriend or boyfriend will like you. If you destroy your career, she or he will leave you.
• Don't go running to your girlfriend or boyfriend if you miss her or him. Try to control yourself.

Solutions

• Don't spend the entire day with your girlfriend or boyfriend. Decide a particular time and place to meet each other.
• If there is no time, talk on the phone or mobile and adjust yourself.
• You can spend most of the time with your girlfriend or boyfriend on the weekends.
• If you miss your girlfriend or boyfriend, sprinkle water on your face. Go out for a walk.
• To divert your attention, listen to music, read a novel, or a story, or watch a movie.
• Always remember, if you have a job, you will have a girlfriend or boyfriend. If you don't, you will not have one.
• Write, in big letters, on the wall of your study room, sentences like - "I want to be something in life", "I have to concentrate on my career?" etc. By doing so, your eyes will see these sentences again and again and you will not be distracted in life.