Love at First Sight

It happens often that you like a boy or girl at first sight and you consider him or her to be everything for you. You start reacting, “Wow! How beautiful she was. She killed me at first sight and she has robbed me off my sleep,” or “How handsome he is. I fell for him.” According to psychologists, there is no such thing as love at first sight.

It is just a feeling. It is a game of hormones. It increases the heartbeat. It stimulates them. Those people who do not get carried away and take steps patiently, their love becomes immortal. It does not remain like a four-day fever, but instead their love becomes an ideal love.

Those youngsters, who get carried away as the strings of their heart starts vibrating and their entire body gets heated up, start behaving like roadside Romeo or Juliets.

Such reactions can be seen in boys and girls. Girls can be turned on when they see a smart builder, city smart-dandy or a different type of person, They don’t usually react immediately. They can control their excitement. But boys are unable to do so. So excitement can be seen in their behaviour.

Love at first sight is often seen because of sexual attraction. Boys and girls consider this sexual attraction to be true love. Actually it is not called love but just an attraction, which normally happens between the opposite sex. When two persons of opposite sex stay close for a long time, they wrongly presume that they are in love.

• ·         When you seem to fall in love with anyone, get to know him or her fully to confirm it is not just an infatuation.
• ·         Find out after three or four meetings whether he or she is suitable for you or not.
• ·         Don’t make trust anyone at first sight. Often the boy or girl, who eventually deceives, pretends to be very cultured. So do not give your heart to one without getting to know him or her fully.
• ·         Don’t make those boys or girls your ideal who seem to be rich, glamorous and own cars. Nowadays boys and girls make use of this formula to trap the opposite sex.
• ·         Smart looking girls fulfil their wishes by trapping smart boys and vice versa. So beware of these types.
• ·         It is foolishness to give your heart to somebody at first sight.
• ·         Sometimes boys fall for married women who like unmarried girls. They get obsessed with them and when they come to know the truth, they repent.
• ·         Nowadays the trend of trapping young boys by married women has gained currency. These women fulfil their sexual urge by trapping naïve boys. They discard them like rubbish after use of them.
• ·         Don’t be serious at first sight. Make sure that you are not going to repent when you give your heart in a hurry.