When your Girlfriend is Pregnant

When emotions of love become overpowering, the desire to have sex increases. So love has become a synonym of sex, instead of being considered sacred. If this is so in your case, then it is big problem. So don't let sex come in between love.
When you have a sexual contact, there are chances that your girlfriend will become pregnant. In such circumstances, life becomes stressful. Some boys cannot tolerate such problems and so they ask their girlfriend to go for an abortion, or they go far away from their girlfriend's life. Sometimes, they even accuse her of something bad and try to get rid of her.
When your girlfriend becomes pregnant, you must keep your wits under control. You should not rush into any step that will make you repent later.

• Don't have sexual intercourse when you are alone. It will have dangerous consequences.
• To love is not to deceive. Be faithful in love. You dared to fall in love willingly, so you should have the courage to accept the challenges.
• When your girlfriend becomes pregnant, don't run away, leaving her in trouble. Only cowardly people run away like that. You both are responsible for the trouble. So you must find a solution together.
• Don't find faults with her or traumatize her. Both of you are at fault, so solve the problem together.
• Don't try to get rid of her if your girlfriend insists on getting married instead of aborting the child.
• If you marry her and accept her, your problems will be solved automatically. 
• If your family is not willing to accept her, then try to convince them. If they don't accept even after that, then oppose them strongly. Seeing your attitude, they will eventually relent.
• If you are weak financially, try to solve it with the help of your family, relatives and friends.
• Don't go for an abortion by visiting midwives, nurses or quacks. This might prove to be dangerous.
• You loved her and liked her, so accept and support her under any circumstances. Give the child in her womb the name of its father, that is, your name.