When You are Unsuccessful in Love

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1. Jason was an unsuccessful lover. The girl he was in love with, didn't love him. Then what? He resorted to sleeping pills as he became unsuccessful in love and considered life to be disappointment and misery.
2. Another incident is of Lara who lands up in hospital in a serious condition. Despite all the efforts, the doctors cannot save her. She had committed suicide by taking poison. From the letter written by her, found in her room, it could be inferred that Lara was in love with a boy named James. James got married to somebody else. Lara couldn't live without James, so she committed suicide.
3. The third incident is of Angel's murder at Paris in France. The Murder John Cobain liked Angel Fox. He used to love her. But Angel didn't want to get into any kind of relationship with him. Then what? Unsuccessful as he was in love, John Cobain entered the examination hall during an exam and threw acid on Angel.
4. In the fourth incident, Mahesh loved Deepali. Here Deepali had been avoiding Mahesh for some days, because she was going to be married soon. Mahesh could not tolerate Deepali avoiding him like that and that she was going to be married to somebody else. As soon as he got an opportunity along with his friends, he raped Deepali. Deepali died as she could not bear the humiliation. 
5. The fifth incident is about a factor worker in Mumbai, named Param, who wanted to achieve his beloved's love but something was preventing him. He made up his mind to get his beloved by any means. In an attempt to do so, he kind five innocent people along with the owner. Today, he is spending his life behind bars.

We see such incidents every day. The gist of the above incidents is that you end up taking wrong decisions if you are unsuccessful in love. It is a natural phenomenon that sexual attraction draws a boy and girl close to each other. If love becomes unsuccessful, then it gives rise to wrong and negative activities (murder, suicide, alcohol consumption, rape, drugs, profanity, etc.) and that brings disgrace upon oneself and the society.

Let's analyse the first incident:

The love between Jason and his girlfriend was one-sided as the girl didn't love him. So there is no question of being successful or unsuccessful. Although Jason was a good person, he was frustrated because of the thoughts that came into his mind - Am I so bad that nobody loves me? Can't I Love? Don't I have a good personality? As he was frustrated with all these things, he took to drinking alcohol. But, instead of blaming himself, he blames his so-called girlfriend. If Jason had wanted, he could have become her friend, mate or companion. Was it essential for Jason to get her as his girlfriend?

In the second Incident:

Lara considered her boyfriend unfaithful. If your boyfriend marries another person, why call him unfaithful? Was it necessary to marry only her boyfriend? Lara didn't think of the boyfriend who she loved so much, before committing suicide. If she had thought properly, she would not have committed suicide. He must have had some obligation. Would it have been right to destroy the hopes of his parents? Should he have eloped with Lara and got married somewhere?

The last incidents are painful.

Angel Fox's murderer, John Cobain never loved Angel at all. That's why he did not think before killing his girlfriend. Behind Angel's murder the only intention was : "If you cannot be mine, you cannot be anybody else's."

John did not try to find out the cause of the love relationship. If John had known, he would have earned Angel's love by mending his ways, What did John get after killing her? Similarly Param did not get love either even after killing five people. He is behind bars today and suffering his punishment.

If you take a look at history, you can find several unsuccessful lovers as examples. Although they suffered frustrations in their personal lives, they become famous by their achievements.

1. The great leader, Napoleon Bonaparte loved his beloved Josephine wholeheartedly, but he couldn't win her love. 
   
2. A German poet, Gert, loved a beautiful girl Charlet, but Gert's love was unsuccessful in making any deep impression on Charlet. As Charlet didn't pay any attention to his love, he disappeared and slipped away quietly informing Charlet.
3. Nobel Prize winner, Rabindranath Tagore loved a 17-year old girl Anna, but he could not achieve her love. He named his love Nalini. He wrote a play by the same name, which became very popular. He immortalised his love by doing so.
   

• The unsuccessful should try to find out the cause of being rejected. 
• If your love is one sided, don't be serious. Try to propose another person similar in looks, behaviour and stature.
• Don't just go after good looks, because several other guys or girls will also be dying for the girl or boy.
• Before proposing to any girl or boy, consider your complexion, behaviour, status, and personality so that your request will not go waste.
• If you are unsuccessful in love, you should muster enough courage and face the realities.
• Don't thrust yourself in the world of sorrows and loneliness considering that it is your fate to be unsuccessful in love.
• if the injury is new, it hurts. But if you apply medicine, it heals fast.
• Sometimes the injury leaves its mark and sometimes nothing remains.
• Don't think about taking revenge if you are unsuccessful in love. Don't try to destroy her or him. If you do so, it would be a war of revenge, not love.
• Just as there is a new day after every night, it could be that you are going to get a far better lover than the present one.